
How To Achieve Ultimate Success On Your Own Terms
Written by: Dr. Petra Frese Executive Contributor Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise. Everyone’s definition of success is different; it’s a personal matter. If you strive for higher success, you first need to determine your own beliefs and perceptions of what success truly is to you. In this article, find a practical truth-finding exercise to propel your success journey forward. Then, let three questions guide you on your way to greater success and find out how to set the right intention to achieve your highest goals and your own ideals of ultimate success. According to the dictionary, “Success is the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or endeavors. It is the accomplishment of one’s goals and results in the attainment of wealth, position, honors, or the like.” The word “successful” can be used as a descriptive adjective for a performance or achievement marked by success, as by attaining honors. We see a person or thing as successful when they have achieved or overachieved expectations measured by the attainment of goals, wealth, fame, social status, etc. Success is considered the opposite of failure. There is only a very fine line between these two. The general definition of success might describe the mainstream sense of the word. But what does success mean to YOU? What does success look like for you? How is it portrayed in your life, in your unique and individual current situation? How important is your success to you right now? Or, is your success more important to someone else other than yourself? To be truly and authentically successful, we must first analyze our truth. That is most often uncomfortable because our perception of success is not always in alignment with the general public opinion. Finding out your truth about success To get some clarity about your expectations and measurement system regarding success, we need to dive deeper into your personal belief system. I once heard Dr. Bruce Lipton use the abbreviation BS for Belief System, and I will also use it here. It may help you when you decide to work on getting some BS (the other BS 😉) out of your BS. A little bit of fun can make tough work much easier. First, it is crucial to determine whether these beliefs are really our own or have been imposed on us. Getting clear on your beliefs and judgments will allow you to align with your soul and live authentically and with much less friction. Excellent suitable methods for this are, e.g., meditation, mindfulness, hypnosis, or any method that guides you into a transcendent state of mind. I would like to share with you a practical exercise that does not require an altered state of mind to find out your truth. The truth-finding exercise Stand with your legs shoulder-width apart. (If this is not possible for you, any other position is okay as well. It is just more profound to feel the difference






